Tuesday, 2 October 2012

5 Major Signs your Marriage might need counseling ???
I'm a huge believer in counseling, Even though my parents took a stab at marriage counseling only to ultimately divorce, their exercise in couples-based therapy allowed them to make greater peace with an already difficult decision. Most of us struggle to recognize the subtle nuances of impending conflict, let alone possess the know-how to manage said conflict effectively. By providing couples with the tools and resources to better share and make thoughtful decisions, marriage counseling hopes to allow for a greater understanding between partners. Take a look at these 5 signs you might need marriage counseling and why!
A traumatic life event
Traumatic life events such as the loss of a child or a serious illness have the potential to tear a marriage apart. Marriage counseling can assist couples in managing the stress and navigation of difficult and unfamiliar emotions.

There's still love
If you still love your spouse and find your marriage in a tough spot, take a proactive approach with a marriage counselor or an experienced couple to help resolve small problems before they become bigger ones
An emotional affair
Emotional infidelity is damaging to a marriage, a lot of trust issues, deceit and suspicions - seek help before it's too late.
Money is the source of marital conflict for many couples. If you and spouse are fighting over money regularly, it's time to see a therapist who can help you both get to the root of your financial problems and steer you toward resolution .
Dramatic Changes
If your sex life suddenly plummeted or has unexpectedly soared to great heights, you may have reason to be concerned, suggests less sex could indicate intimate relations with someone else, while an increase in sexual appetite might suggest arousal from an outside source,hmmmmm.
Dont say you'll have things worked out,dont say it will blow over,dont say it'll be fine after a while.....Just Talk About it,it might just be the littlest of issues that wouldnt even need you to get Counselled.

1 comment:

  1. Very Helpful information but pls can we get recommendations to a marriage consellor in Lagos Nigeria?