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Tuesday, 16 April 2013
Why men seek prostitutes!
Does your man seek prostitutes???
We all know it ,its always called "The world’s oldest profession, but sex work is far from an accepted industry in our country. Many people consider prostitution with disdain and disgust, while others wonder what the appeal is. Why do so many men go to sex workers, and what type of man is drawn to this world?
That is what a new study led by researchers from the University of Portland sought to discover. That just one percent of men had visited a sex worker in the past year, but that 14 percent of men reported visiting a sex worker at least once in their lives.
The researchers also delved into the men’s background and history. They found that men who served in the military were more likely to have paid for sex, and men who had a full-time job and were “sexually liberal” were also more likely to confess visiting a sex worker.
What can account for these findings?
Perhaps men in the military are more likely to visit prostitutes than men who are not in the service simply do to the nature of their job. Traveling to foreign countries and being overseas can make meeting partners difficult, and military men often don’t have the option to meet available women at bars or parties like the average man can. Men in the military might also be more accustomed to high-risk and dangerous situations, and this might explain why they are more inclined to visit sex workers when compared to non-service men who might be more cautious.
As for having a full-time job, it might simply come down to the fact that these are the men who have more expendable income to spend on sex. And, it’s easy see how being sexually liberal plays a role in a man’s decision to visit a sex worker. A conservative man might not be open to the idea of paying for sex, or for having sex outside of monogamy period.
The findings also noted a difference between men who utilize the Internet for sex and those who meet sex workers on the street. “Johns” who used sites such as Craigslist were more likely to be white and married, and they were also more likely to have graduate degrees and make an attractive salary.
These are interesting discoveries because they help to show us how technology is changing sex work and how men find available partners. They also help to show us that the men who pay for sex work are often “average” men, men who are successful and intelligent and perhaps even married. In other words, today’s John doesn’t necessarily meet the Hollywood image of a seedy man and a street corner, but rather that of a clean-cut guy logging onto his computer at night after work.
Whatever the case, it’s important to remember that sex work can still be a dangerous and risky activity for all parties involved. Not only are STDs an issue, but many sex workers are often abused, raped, and largely marginalized or forgotten about by society. These women tend to be the ones who pay the price for the crime, while the men often do little time. It might be the oldest profession in the world, but we are still a long way from being able to protect the women in these situations, and studies such as these help to clarify that the problem is much more multi-faceted and complex than it might at first appear. Now guys Ask yourselves the same question???
Thursday, 11 April 2013
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Sunday, 31 March 2013
Shes shy? What a woman wants in bed!
What women want ?
Relationship & bedroom ONLY!
Did you read THE PART 1 of what men want???
From what you read in our first part its not all about the guys, women have more request that have been ignored for so long in a relationship,marriage plus the good old bedroom. Even when they hint in loud phrases ,as usual you ignore TRUE OR FALSE ???
Ask yourself, “How much time do I spend with my spouse?” Uninterrupted time means time spent without iPhones and Blackberrys — a conversation with nothing else on.
Women tell us exactly what they want at www.whtwomenwant.blogspot.com www.whtwomenwant.blogspot.com
Do show Appreciation: Nowadays, women take care of the children and make salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying, “These are the kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women should tune in when their husbands are appreciative.
Do show youre Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.
Do flatter her with Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say "I love you." Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week — any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better they feel in the relationship.
Here are some things your lady might want, but she’s too self-conscious to ask you for it. A reader recently sent us a mail via http://facebook.com/beautyoverdose. Don’t pressure anything, of course — but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised at how enthusiastically she accepts …it's about goin down Below brothers,the same way you enjoy the down below in your Hood!
Ask yourself, “How much time do I spend with my spouse?” Uninterrupted time means time spent without iPhones and Blackberrys — a conversation with nothing else on.
Women tell us exactly what they want at www.whtwomenwant.blogspot.com www.whtwomenwant.blogspot.com
Do show Appreciation: Nowadays, women take care of the children and make salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying, “These are the kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women should tune in when their husbands are appreciative.
Do show youre Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.
Do flatter her with Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say "I love you." Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week — any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better they feel in the relationship.
Here are some things your lady might want, but she’s too self-conscious to ask you for it. A reader recently sent us a mail via http://facebook.com/beautyoverdose. Don’t pressure anything, of course — but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised at how enthusiastically she accepts …it's about goin down Below brothers,the same way you enjoy the down below in your Hood!
1. She wants you to eat her out more: Our culture has a weird relationship with VAG, if you haven’t noticed. Your lady has likely been exposed to a lot of lame-o messages telling her that her vag is “too hairy,” “too smelly,” “tastes gross,” “ugly,” etc. She might really love getting oral sex, but she’s afraid to ask you to do it because she’s afraid you’ve internalized the same messages that she has.
A way to ask: It’s time to start sincerely praising her lady parts big time: “Your _______ is so pretty!” “I love the way your vagina looks.” “I love the taste” “I love hearing you moan while at it” And so on. (If she is offended by the word find a nickname ,obviously you should say something different.) If she is still skittish about being down below don’t push it. Offer to give a massage all over her inner thighs and on the outer folds of her _____keep offering to do this, and keep praising her , until she mellows out. And if she never does, hey, maybe she’s just not into oral sex!
2. She wants to fool around in public: Let me be clear: Having full-on sex in public might be a little too risqué — not to mention messy — for some women, myself included. But that doesn’t mean a lady wouldn’t love a heavy-duty make-out session at that banquet in the far corner of the bar, the backseat of her car, or on her front steps!
How to ask: Download the Kelis song “In Public” — the chorus goes “Let’s get it on in public” — and when it plays, ask your girl if she thinks it’s sexy.
3. She wants to be dominated: Even big-mouthed ballsy women like me enjoy being dominated! Yet dominating a woman scares a lot of men because they are afraid — rightfully so — of being rape-y. But with tons of trust and communication, she’ll be creaming her panties in no time! You just need to take baby steps and constantly read her body language to make sure she’s comfortable, both physically and emotionally. I want to emphasize the importance of baby steps: If you’re going to play around with domination, it’s never a good idea to start off with anything that might hurt her feelings or humiliate her, i.e., barking orders at her (“Go down on me NOW!”) or name-calling (“Slut!”). Playing around with restraints — loose restraints, of course — is definitely a better way to go.
How to ask: Start simple. Really simple. “Would you like it if I blindfolded you the next time I go down on you?” If she likes that, next time ask, “Would you like it if I loosely tied your wrists to the bedposts?” If she likes that, next time ask, “Would you like it if I held down your arms while I lick your breasts?” If she likes that, the two of you can figure out what else she might like. It’s also a good idea to create a “safe word,” which is something she can say when she wants you to stop immediately. (Sometimes in the heat of the moment people say “Oh, noooo!” when they really mean “Oh, that feels good!” So it’s good if your safe word is something other than “no.”) My safe word is this sentence: “I want you to stop now.” Because it makes my intentions clear.
4. She wants you to be the submissive one: Getting dominated might not be her thing, but she might want to dominate you. Yes, even if she’s the meek and shy one! Speaking from a lady’s point of view, it can be awkward to tell a guy you want to dominate him because it’s hard to ascertain which guys will think it’s too emasculating. (I am not saying a man getting dominated has to be emasculating; some guys just perceive it that way.) But if you think your woman might get her rocks off by playing the sex goddess, you getting dominated is worth bringing up.
How to ask: Does your lady ever ride cowgirl? If that’s your favorite move — and in my experience, for a lot of guys, it is — tell her that you just LOVE her in control. Then suggest the same things that I recommended under the “She wants to be dominated” section — say you want her to give you a BJ while you’re blindfolded, then with your wrists tied to the bed post, etc. If she finds her inner domination queen, you’re a lucky guy!
5. She wants to be spanked: Lightly spanking a woman (i.e., nothing that could cause a bruise) can feel amazing for both of you: I’ve heard lots of women say that getting spanked sends lots of tingly feelings to their vaginal and anal areas and I’ve heard lots of men say spanking a woman makes them feel like they are physically demonstrating their lust. I’ve been pretty open about my own enjoyment with getting spanked and, I promise you, lots of women really like it. Unfortunately, asking to be spanked can be embarrassing for a woman because, well, it is sort of silly!
How to ask: Just like when you’re asking a woman if she wants to be dominated, the key is to take baby steps. While you’re making out, touch her ass a lot; squeeze it, rub it; show her you think her booty is a-maz-ing. Whisper in her ear, “Can I give you a little spank?” If she says yes, do it once, softly. Ask, “Do you like that?” If she says yes or even if she’s ambivalent, ask if you can do it a few more times, all the while kissing her and still squeezing and rubbing her ass. Then you should probably stop. Next time you guys are cuddling, bring up how you liked giving her little spanks and ask if she wants to try it again sometime. If she’s receptive, ask her if she wants you to do it harder or if she’d like to lie in your lap while you spank her. One more thing: my advice about dominating a woman is the same here, too. Do not call her names or humiliate her unless she tells you that’s what she wants. For all you know, she has issues left over from childhood about being physically punished and calling her a “bad girl” might be upsetting. The same goes for women who might have had abusive relationships in the past: Even if your woman really likes getting spanked, it’s important to remember that spanking is stillhitting and you need to make it 100 percent absolutely clear that you’re only doing it in the context of sexual arousal. Understood? Now go get it on.
Friday, 29 March 2013
How to make your man want you more
This is where your honesty is needed.
WOMEN: Would you fake it in bed just to please him,even till marriage ???
GENTLEMEN: its great with her but you can't marry her.
Loving with wifey is boring and yet you go back to her....hmmmm but WHY???
Especially for other individuals that are lost in these up and coming relationship swirls that leads to unhealthy relationships,brake-ups and pretend partnerships. kindly share your take on this as to help shed more light, your comments will be appreciated.
Below a little article contributed by ADefemi Biobaku:
What men want to spice up Climax in the bedroom.
Yesssssss it's all about him ladies ,make him want you moreee!
Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these positions that men love. Ultimately, its about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways.
1. Woman in-charge :Ask your guy what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and we're betting he'll say it's pleasing you. This sexy pose puts you in the driver's seat, and that's exactly where he wants you. Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what you like, leaving his hands free to roam. The bonus? He loves having your curves in full view…so flip on the lights and give him a show.
2. The Mission: This standard go-to is a favorite because it puts him in control, while still being intimate: your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he's in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best is like a conversation, and the mission allows you to communicate with yourselves
3. She can do a Reverse Cowgirl: This reverse variation of the woman above position is the best of both worlds for your guy. It gives him the sexy view he gets during D-style but it puts you in control. This position doesn't allow for a ton of touching or eye contact, but it's a nice contrast to some of the more classic, romantic positions. If you're craving a connection flash a look back at him while you're doing your thing—it'll drive both of you over the edge.
4. D-Style: This positions puts him in control, allowing him to call the shots and to go at the speed that's best for him. Plus, it allows for deeper penetration, making him feel like king in the bedroom. Some women love the intense full feeling, but if it feels like too much, let him know. Communication is key to enjoying sex and experiencing the full psychological benefits of physical intimacy.
5. Standing Up: Getting it on while standing up is probably not your go-to move, but it's perfect for that sweaty, gotta-have-you-now stuff that'll make him feel irresistible. Whether he's bending you over the new kitchen table or you're steadying yourself against the wall, this spontaneous position is perfect for a quick fun
6. Spoon it: while spooning is the ultimate intimate position, and a go-to for when you're feeling lazy and affectionate. Not only does it give him total access to your bod, it also frees your digits up so that you can give yourself a hand, a move that's sure to drive him wild. Make it even hotter by twisting your body and head slightly towards him so you can smooch while his hands roam. Afterward you can slip into an easy, snuggley sleep. 5 Things Men (Really) Think about?
7. Its full of Laps of Dance: Pull up a chair and have him take a seat while you get on top. He'll love the look and feel of you straddling him, and having you in control will help him last longer, too. A bonus? Unlike the standard woman-on-top position, this ones allows for you to stay super close, kiss, and make eye contact. Plus, he still gets to be aggressive with his hands, tugging on your hair, rubbing your back, and pulling you closer.
Pls tell us if any of these 7 must try has worked for you,will work for you and if you love this article???
Tuesday, 26 March 2013
Celebrity makeup blunders.....lol..
Not every1 gets it right,even celebs have makeup blunders.
Lets just say ,if you're gonna be on a Red carpet and not a makeup artist from the MAC store,Plssssssssssss just stick to the 'Less is More Pledge'.
IT'S A WARNING SIGN,WATCHOUT FOR THE BOM Makeup Blunders Busters, you could be next!
Natural Beauty favorites all in your kitchen!!!
Skincare Home remedies sitting in your kitchen!
There is nothing ‘ugly’ among nature’s creations. The judgment of grades of beauty lies in the vision of the viewer. You look beautiful and radiant only when your inner beauty surfaces. This inner beauty is gained through yoga, meditation and the use of natural beauty enhancers.
Here are some natural products found in your kitchen that can be used as beauty aids:

To make your skin glow
Grate raw coconut and squeeze milk out of it. Apply this milk over your lips and face. It adds grace and glow to your skin.
Cleansing the skin
Dip a piece of cotton wool in unboiled milk and wipe the face with it. It cleans unseen dirt a.
Skin moisturizer
For normal skin, mix 1 tablespoon orange juice and 1 tablespoon lemon juice in a cup of yogurt, to make a paste. Apply it on face as a mask and keep it on for 15 minutes. Then clean it off with a wet tissue. This mask enhances the complexion and glow of face.
Nourishing the skin
A protein mask help to nourish your skin. Soak a teaspoon of urad dal and 5-6 almonds overnight. Grind this to a fine paste apply this protein mask on face and wash it off after half an hour. This mask nourishes the facial skin and also enhances the complexion.
Preventing wrinkles
Application of pure castor oil prevents wrinkles and softens the skin. This slows down the aging process
Home made conditioner
Mix one tablespoon of honey and 2 tablespoons of cream. Apply this mixture on the face and wash off after a few minutes. It works wonders.
Removing skin pigmentation and marks
Rubbing a raw potato on face removes marks and pigments.
Sunscreen lotion from kitchen
Prepare a homogenous mixture of cucumber juice, glycerin and rose water. Apply this mixture on face. This mixture can be refrigerated.
There is nothing ‘ugly’ among nature’s creations. The judgment of grades of beauty lies in the vision of the viewer. You look beautiful and radiant only when your inner beauty surfaces. This inner beauty is gained through yoga, meditation and the use of natural beauty enhancers.
Here are some natural products found in your kitchen that can be used as beauty aids:

To make your skin glow
Grate raw coconut and squeeze milk out of it. Apply this milk over your lips and face. It adds grace and glow to your skin.
Cleansing the skin
Dip a piece of cotton wool in unboiled milk and wipe the face with it. It cleans unseen dirt a.
Skin moisturizer
For normal skin, mix 1 tablespoon orange juice and 1 tablespoon lemon juice in a cup of yogurt, to make a paste. Apply it on face as a mask and keep it on for 15 minutes. Then clean it off with a wet tissue. This mask enhances the complexion and glow of face.
Nourishing the skin
A protein mask help to nourish your skin. Soak a teaspoon of urad dal and 5-6 almonds overnight. Grind this to a fine paste apply this protein mask on face and wash it off after half an hour. This mask nourishes the facial skin and also enhances the complexion.
Preventing wrinkles
Application of pure castor oil prevents wrinkles and softens the skin. This slows down the aging process
Home made conditioner
Mix one tablespoon of honey and 2 tablespoons of cream. Apply this mixture on the face and wash off after a few minutes. It works wonders.
Removing skin pigmentation and marks
Rubbing a raw potato on face removes marks and pigments.
Sunscreen lotion from kitchen
Prepare a homogenous mixture of cucumber juice, glycerin and rose water. Apply this mixture on face. This mixture can be refrigerated.
Thursday, 21 March 2013
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